Kindness to Kith and Kin

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It is advisable to maintain justice  and do good to kith & kin. There is no assurance that we  will get the best  treatment from them , but be kind to them anyway. You may have had some challenges with your siblings, please forgive and show them kindness! You may have faced opposition or oppression from kinsmen, but still forgive, forget and do not be mean to them. Remember! Your kith may be your kite to fly! Dear God! Grant us the heart to be kind to our kith and kin. Grant us the mind to forgive and forget their trespasses and the strength to overcome tribulations from their actions, for You are the most forgiving amen. Have a family friendly week.

The new year with new hope

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The fact that some of your aspirations did not come to realization should not be a devastation. The fact that some of your prayers or wishes did not manifest in the previous year does not mean your God has forsaken or displeased with you. If it did not come to you, it may not be meant for you. If it did not happen at the time, it may not be the right time. Remember! Delay is not dismay. To fall is not to fail. Dear God! Grant us the acceptance of prayer and the patience to wait for the best and right time; and please make it a year of hope that is devoid of mope. Folks! Its a new year! Its a new dawn! Its a new day to celebrate. Have a happy one!

Pain to gain

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A pain may arise from a physical injury or an emotional injury. whichever way it comes, it is important to note that it will not last.  Think about the way you came into existence, a great pain was felt by mom. This pain lasted for a few hours and succor followed. Think about the numerous gains so far this year. If only we know that our cry for success is soon to dry, we would bore the pain with a smile. Remember! The after taste of bitter leaf is a sweet taste. There is ease after hardship. Surely there is gain after pain as long as there is faith.  Dear God! Give us the faith to bear the pain till there comes the gain amen. Have a gainful week.

You do not know who will help you

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MJ, a young lady in her late teens was traveling between states in an Africa country. The cost of a public inter state transport was 30 box, but her dad gave her an additional 50 box for Intra state transport, food, gifts and other things as deemed necessary.  In her usual smart ideas, MJ had her own plans to get a free ride, so she get to keep all the money. Aren, her childhood friend lives in the same city and has an uncle who works in the urban city MJ is visiting. Aren’s uncle visits his family every weekend and leaves for work again every Monday. It was a perfect timing, because Aren’s uncle came home to see his family this weekend and will be leaving for work early Monday morning. MJ’s plan was successful and they both set out for the state “L” at about 6 am. The journey took about an hour. Chatting all the way with her friend’s uncle, MJ was thinking about how lavishly she is going to spend and enjoy life with the saving from her transport fare. When it was about 10 minutes to get to their destination, MJ started looking for the money from her bag. She didn’t find it, but thought she would have more time to look for it when she gets to state L. Thank God for a safe drive. She alighted from the car at about 7 am, thanked her friend’s uncle with a warm goodbye. She now searched her bags thoroughly for the money at this time because she needed to take a local transport to her final destination. Alas! She could not find the money. Oh my God! Thought MJ. I cannot walk 20 kilometers to get to my final destination, reaffirmed MJ. So many questions was going through her mind, no mobile phones to call anyone. It was hustle and bustle in this metropolitan city. Everyone was going about their daily lives; street hawkers, road traders, corporate men and women, school children, public buses, cabs etc. It was a busy morning as usual. There was a big motor park where she was and the noise from the bus drivers and their assistant was a nightmare. MJ decided to approach and ask one of those corporate looking guys for 10 box to get on the bus. From the first  up to the tenth person she spoke to, it was rain of abuses, curses, suspicion, bad look etc. With a big disappointment from the “so called corporate” guys, she started crying. Will crying solve my problem? she asked herself. No!. At this time, she saw a driver assistant popularly called conductor, in tattered clothes and unassuming , shouting and calling passengers on to his bus . She asked him for 10 box. Without any hesitation, he went for his pocket and handed a 10 box note to MJ. He then stopped another bus driven by his colleague and plying the same route as MJ . He said to the other conductor ” please do not collect transport fare from her, she is my sister” MJ hopped on the bus,  became so emotional and thanked her ‘new brother'(conductor) exceedingly. She was so touched by his kindness. Lesson learnt:
1. You make a plan but the best of planner, the supreme makes it work.
2. Always tell people that matter to you( parents, spouse, sibling etc) things they need to know about you. It could be a result of not telling her dad that made her not to find the money.
3. Your help may come from where you never expected.  Do not prejudge. Have an open mind when you need help.
Folks! Have an open mind when you need help. May God open for us ways where there seems to be none amen

 

Every Meeting is for a reason

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Every meeting is for a reason, whether negative or positive. It may be between families, friends, colleagues, acquaintances, associations, organizations etc. The best and the most important ingredient of every meeting is that the truth be spoken, irrespective of from whom, to whom and about whom. The truth may not go well all the time with all concerned. The fact remains that, once said from the heart without any dart will be nice. Either way you may learn or earn from it. Dear God! Make us learn and earn good in every meeting we find ourselves amen. Please make our meeting with You a glorious one amen. Have a positive weekend.

Tribe does not matter, throb does

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Does it really matter what tribe, color, sex, religious beliefs or status? You breath I breath! You bleed I bleed!  You feel I feel! You smile I smile! You sleep I sleep! We are all the same beautiful creatures of God. Tribe is what you see when throb is missing. Color is what you perceive when parlor is not in place. Language is what you hear when love is not spoken. Think about why we look and feel the same, and you will see it is not by chance but to enhance. We are one family in a big colony. Brethren! Show the same love to someone today, and encourage someone to do the same. Have a lovely day !

Why worry

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Do you have any control over yourself; your  breath , wealth,  health , and threat? So why worry over things you are not capable of changing or influencing. A lot of energy is needed to worry, but less energy is needed to smile and be happy. Remember! Worry breeds sorry and may deprive you of merry. Live on the wing of hope and leave all affairs to the able for He will make your path smooth and easy. Dear God! Grant us a long quality life that is free from worry and sorry but full of  merry and curry. Please bestow on us thy special favor and dispose our affairs for us in the right way amen. Its another week! Free yourself of all worry and help someone achieve the same!

How easy is it to give

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Never think it is  easy to help anybody but think it is helpful and joyful to create ease for somebody. You don’t have to be a Warren Buffet or Bill gates to lend a helping hand. Just give out of the little you have to settle a need for someone. Remember! Not until you can give from that which you love in charity will you be a free giver. Will you go looking for someone to give to! Probably not! will someone look for you to give them! Probably yes.  Dear God! Make us self sufficient so we can be help efficient amen. Have a  free giving week folks!

Who to give to

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Giving is not only restricted to family; parents, siblings, cousins, etc. it may be to anyone, someone or everyone in need. Giving is living and living is giving but the receiver may be a deceiver. It doesn’t matter because God is the rewarder, and will reward everything we do for His sake. If you remember that you are giving for a bigger reason, you will not be pained by the receivers attitude; good or bad. A shopper does not feel the noise in the shopping mall, but concentrate on the store she is shopping from. Dear Lord! I give for your sake even when it’s not convenient, please reward me with bounty that knows no bounds amen. Have a bountiful day.