Family is not only blood but very broad

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A family is not only limited to people that are related by blood or marriage. It is very broad and extends to people that are connected and they have love for each other , they have respect for one another , they show care towards each other, they help one another and they give hope to each other .  Brethren! Do these to everyone because we are one big family. No matter where you are, no matter whom you are, we are one. May God bless our family and make us blessings to other families amen. Have a blessed week as you extend love to different families.

Help someone in need

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John lived in a 4 bedroom bungalow with his family; his wife and three children. The bungalow was built on a massive plot of land, big enough for two houses. The house was owned by an international manufacturing company where he worked as an accountant. He rose to the position of a director in a few years. He was very diligent at his job, not only as a top executive, but also someone of high integrity and astute professionalism worthy of emulation. As a self-made man from a very humble beginning, he believed so much in personal development. He read books at his spare time. He took reading as his hobby and spent quite a substantial amount of money growing his personal library. Aside reading, he believed that giving, especially to people in need was a great way to appreciate His creator who has been good to him and his family. The apartment, being his company’s property was rented to him as part of the incentives attached to the office of the Director. This area was occupied by the elites of this mega city of a West African state. The reason why anyone would be able to live in this particular community was through inheritance, being a top government official or company’s executives, and successful business owners. Having worked for a number of years at his present job, the company decided to sell the property to John. He had always believed in saving right from his early working years, as he was only able to further his education pass high school from his personal savings. This made it an attractive opportunity to jump at the offer of buying the property from his company. The Company offered him a soft loan to make up for the cost of  acquiring the land. The loan was to be repaid from the rent he would  get from so many years of renting the property once it is completed.

The next step after acquiring the property was to build a dividing fence to separate the other half of the land from the house where he lived. A few years passed, and he was ready to build this land into a block of 6 flats, to be used as an investment property. He hired the services of building professionals; Architects, structural Engineers and a building contractor. Living in this community, coping with the hustle and bustle of working in a metropolitan city and being a top executive at the peak of his profession was enough for anyone not to feel the pains and cry of down trodden class of the society. This was not the case with John.

He was excited and could not wait to see the building to completion and so, would visit the site every night when he got back from work. He used his torch light to go into the site and inspect the progress of construction. On this particular night, he noticed a reflection of light from one of the rooms under construction. He was very surprised, stepped back for a moment and went closer. He saw a young boy in his teens using a candle light to study.

Who are you? What are you doing here? Demanded John

My name is Tammy. I am one of the general labors working here during the day. I am sorry Sir! Responded the young man

Tammy continued. I’m studying for an entrance exam to the university, and couldn’t afford to travel back every night to where I live. I had to work to pay for the examination, and would not do myself any good if I do not prepare well.

Oh! OK! Tell me about yourself and your family. Demanded John

Tammy continued. My dad died a few years and my mom is really struggling to take care of myself and my sibling. It’s not been easy for her.

John was so sorry for this young man and he said to him: please let me know when you get your results. I wish you the very best. Thank you sir. I will surely do. Responded Tammy.

John informed his wife Anne of his conversation with Tammy and they both agreed to help him through school if his results were good enough to get him admitted.

A few months later, the construction was completed, but Tammy did as he was told. He had written the entrance exam to get into the Mechanical Engineering program and had passed. He informed John, who was so happy of his success. Congratulations Tammy. I’m so proud of you.  What are the tuition and other living expenses? We are going to take care of the tuition immediately. Reaffirmed John. How much would you require monthly for other expenses.

Five thousand bucks sir, responded Tammy.

I will pay the Living expenses into your bank account every month, starting from the first month of the school year. Tammy thanked John and his wife exceedingly. He was very excited, very appreciative of his new “adopted” parents and looked forward to a great school year. He came back after a few days, with his mum and siblings to show his heart felt appreciation to John and his family. What a warm welcome to receive them.

Years passed, but Tammy did not forget the promise he made to himself. He must succeed! He was very diligent at his studies and focused more on completing his course of study with his desired outcome. He visited John and his family occasionally and he became a part of the family, received a warm welcome anytime he visited.

Four years went by just like a flash. He did very well, and was on the honor roll throughout the program. He made both his mum and his adopted parents very proud, and his graduation was a dream comes true. Thank goodness, he made it with distinction! The next step was to secure an employment with a reputable firm to at least make a living. He prepared a good resume and applied to so many Engineering companies. The job did not come forth. Looking for a job is a job in itself. There were not many interviews, and the few ones did not get this young man a job. He became so frustrated, and approached John one day.

Daddy, what can I do for you in the house, to engage me in the meantime? Tammy asked.

You know I have domestic workers already, and it would be unfair to relieve them of their job without a reason. Do not worry my dear. Yours will come very soon by God s grace amen. Replied John.

The young man did not give up. He extended his search outside the shores of his country.

He got a job at an Engineering company in Europe. It was a fantastic offer. He needed to apply for a work visa with his offer letter, so that he may travel overseas to start his career. Tammy went to see John to share the good news. Congratulations Tammy. What next. John asked.

I need a work visa, but I do not have the funds to process the visa or buy the travel ticket.

How much will it cost, demanded John. I will give you the processing fees and the air fare when you are ready to go. Concluded John

I cannot thank you enough. May God bless you more and more sir.

Tammy traveled to another city where the consular office was. The work visa was issued, and he purchased his flight ticket.

The D-day was here, Tammy left his country feeling very happy and excited. What the new country holds is unknown to him, but the fact that he was going to start a career in his course of study meant a lot to him.

He had settled down in his new country, and his next ambition was marriage. He fell in love with a young vibrant lady, from his country of origin. Her background, humility, decency and disposition to life were an envious one. A few months into their relationship, she already knew who John was, and what impacts he had made to Tammy’s life. The relationship worked well within a few years, and Tammy proposed to Yolanda. They both agreed to have their marriage in their country of origin, as their parents and those who matters in their lives needed to be present at the wedding. Tammy called to inform John and Anne, that a date has been fixed and that John will be standing in the position of his biological dad. It was a welcome responsibility for John and Anne. They supported their marriage in every way possible. It was a very colorful occasion and celebration. No extravagance, but a good celebration of love. Everyone present witnessed a memorable event. The couple traveled back a few weeks after their marriage. It was a great honey moon for them.

A few months after their marriage, Tammy felt the need to show his appreciation. He sent a cash gift of fifty thousand bucks to John and Anne. They appreciated it a lot, but John told him that all he needed to know was that Tammy was happy and living well with his family.

Tammy and Yolanda are now living in bliss and we wish them both a happy married life with kids who will fill their home with joy and laughter amen. John and Anne are retired, and are living well in North America. May God bless them with a very healthy life amen.

Lesson learnt

  1. Pay attention to the people around you. You may see the need to lift someone up
  2. Help in every little way possible. It goes a long way
  3. Do not be quick to react to strangers, except it is a positive one.

Dear God. Make us good instrument for others, and please reward us with bounties that knows no bound amen.

 

 

 

 

Migration from bad to good

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To migrate is to move from a point to another in search of food , water, safety, peace or good life.  It may also be from hating to loving, taking to giving, selfishness to caring, being negative to being positive, disbelieving to believing, doubting to trusting, from impatience to patience. We can make a positive change to mark a new day, a new month or a new year. Dear God! Grant us the ability to change from good to better to best in seeking Your pleasure till we reach our treasure  amen. Have a pleasurable time as we migrate for good.

Be hopeful. The trial will soon retire

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Are you on the path of the tornado right now. Is the wind blowing you everywhere from every side. Are you wondering how long this is going to last for. Are you on the verge of losing hope. Has it been such a long time that you had a genuine smile. Has it been long that you had a celebration . Brethren! just live on the tiny hope that the storm will soon be over. Dear God! Reawaken my hope and make me hold onto to the rope of  faith amen. Please lighten my path till i pass this test of life amen.  Have a week full of hope.

Stop your fear in the new year

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Why do you fear when you are going to rise! God is the one that knows your fears and He is the only one that can  wipe your tears. He will not let you tear because He has not given you more than you can bear. The fact that you did not tear means that your help is near.  Just count your blessings in the previous year and hope for the best in the new year. Dear Lord ! Hear my cry as I try to stay calm and move forward in the new year amen. Have a week full of ease, and a year filled with joy.

Listen more, talk less

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The person who listens will pay more attention, will observe, will receive, will heed, will concentrate, will understand and will be wise. Brethren! Be reluctant to respond, but be fast in listening. A great listener will be a great and successful leader.  A good listener will be a very good and successful learner . Great people listen more and small people talk more. Do not indulge in excessive talk except when remembering God. Dear Lord! Grant us the ability to listen more and to talk when it is absolutely necessary and important. Please save us from the trouble associated with excessive talking amen. Have a pleasant week

Do not avoid talking to others

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How about your brother or sister that you have not spoken to in twenty years? How about your parents that you have not called in one or two months because they scolded you? How about your relation or family member that you are not in talking terms because of a flimsy reason? How about your friend or colleague that you have not seen in ages because of a simple disagreement?   Show some love and maturity. Call them today , apologize if need be. Tomorrow may be late. Dear God! Take away from us the spirit of pride that shows as self principles amen. Have a week full of piety.

Say it as you want to hear it

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Brethren! Say it exactly the way you will like to hear it said unto you. Imagine someone saying it exactly the same way to you, and think of the way you feel. Words spoken does not die, but someone’s heart may die from it. Do you really want to make someone or really want to break someone by what you say to them. Folks! Say it with compassion or keep it with emotion.  Dear Lord! Make us say it only if it will make someone’s day amen. Have a friendly week as you speak with compassion to others.

Words may be swords

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Words is an expression of emotions which could be any of the feelings of joy, sorrow, fear, hate or love.  Words spoken as a result of uncontrolled emotions may be sword.  A sword may cause death or destruction, so is bad words spoken to someone. It is not the intention of most people to cause death for others, but they may be unaware of a careless talk that can cause harm. Brethren. Always say words that is born out of love.  Dear Lord! Help us control our emotions before it causes commotion amen. Have a  week full of compassion.

Kindness has no limit

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This is a story of an unlimited kindness that was shown to me some years ago. Mandy relates this unforgettable experience.

It was in the summer break of year 2000. I dropped my two kids 6 and 3 as usual with my mum to go to work. It was a pay day, and after the day’s work, I went to the bank to collect the stipend from my civil servants salary. I did some grocery and toy shopping for my kids. I always wanted them to have a swell time when I get paid. With a lot of enthusiasm, they looked forward to getting home to play with their new toys and ate some candies, shortbread and many more. I drove my old cherry car to pick them up around 6.30 PM,  and we headed home.

On a good day, the journey would take about an hour as I live in a suburb. As I merged onto a major highway in a busy metropolitan city of West Africa, the unthinkable happened. I was in the middle lane on the side that exited the city. The car suddenly stopped. What could that be! I thought. I didn’t know what to do. It was very dangerous as cars were speeding from left and right. In about 2 minutes, some three guys referred to as ” the area boys” showed up from nowhere to help, at least to push the car off the road to safety. My son of  6 years started crying. One of the 3 guys immediately said” it’s a timing chain problem” I thought to myself ” is he a mechanic” I did not disagree with his statement, neither did I agree. One of them went and brought with him a road side mechanic. The fear of a road side mechanic in this city back then was the beginning of wisdom, but I did not have any choice. The mechanic came and said the same. A car Timing chain was not an easy fix. As we were deliberating on what to be done, I heard someone called out my name from the other side of the road, the side that goes into the city. It was one of my colleagues and a friend, Ada. She was driving home. She shouted” Do not allow any road mechanic, I will go and bring my good mechanic” After about half an hour, she came with an apprentice mechanic because her mechanic was too busy to come. At this time, I had to pay some token to the area boys and the road side mechanic who I told to hands-off immediately Ada arrived with her mechanic.

The apprentice said it was a different issue. The trial and error kind of car diagnostics usually done by our mechanics is not comparable to what exist in other parts of the world.  From contact set to battery to alternator etc., none of his solution worked. It was about 7.30 pm now, we were all getting exhausted, and another colleague of ours drove past. Ada stopped and asked him for help. He said he could not help because he was getting late for his part time long distance learning. He drove away.

It was dark now, and we could not still figure out what was wrong with the car. In a few minutes, I looked up and noticed from a distance, my company’s staff bus, the one that terminated in the suburb where I lived. The thought that first came to my mind was to abandon this old rickety car and join the staff bus with my kids who were hungry and tired. As I was thinking aloud, I just spoke out and this conversation ensued

Me: Oh my God, look at the staff bus.

Ada: Is it the one that plied to your area.

Me: Yes

Ada: Please pick your bags, get ready with your children, and I will waive it down for you.

Me: I couldn’t believe my ears. Really!

Ada: Yes, she repeated emphatically.

Me: How could I leave you here with my car trouble and go?

Ada: Do not worry!  Just come to my house tomorrow. Whatever the situation, I will tow it from here to my house.

Me: I was so emotional, because I felt this was an unusual limitless kindness. I thanked her greatly with a warm hug.

My kids were happy as we hopped on the staff bus. As we were going home, I cannot stop thinking of this help from Ada. She was a wonderful human being who would go extra mile to help anyone.  We got home safely, but very  late. I went to her house the following morning with my mechanic who did the correct diagnosis and guess what: Timing Chain issue” Lessons learnt

  1. No matter what, some people will stand by you come rain come shine. Ada is one of those and she does this to everyone. Appreciate them if you have people like this.
  2. Do not prejudge. The road side mechanic was right, but because of my prejudice, did not give him a chance. if I did, we would not have been there for so long. Give people a chance to prove themselves.
  3. Sometimes, you may not be able to help, but still show some empathy. The other colleague of ours did not show care at all. He made us feel that his own thing was more important to him. Do not be self centered. You may need somebody’s help soon.
  4. Those area boys rendered a great help by pushing the car off the road, and also getting a mechanic. If given the opportunity in our society, they could make themselves more useful to others. Maybe a free vocational school could better their lives. If you can, please help and give someone the opportunity

 

Folks! Show some level of care and empathy, even when you cannot really help. May God bless Ada and make all her aspiration s realized by His grace amen. May God bless us and make us a blessing for others.

May God meet us all at the point of our needs amen.